Friday, November 26, 2010

Its all about Family.

I was talking to a girlfriend the other day and she was saying that Christmas isn't what it used to be. She doesn't like it anymore because it involves giving and getting gifts that nobody wants or needs.  Older people (sorry gal) are downsizing now and as much as the thought is there, some gifts are just not needed.  When I was growing up it was all about family.  Visiting and spending time with family.  Now it is all about commercialism.  What to buy. Who to buy for. How much to spend.  Forget it! This year I have decided that I want to go back in time.  I don't want my kids to worry about  buying us gifts. And I don't want to worry about buying gifts for my family that they don't want or need just so you can give gifts.  I just want my family.  I have a sister who always goes away for Christmas.  She has two kids.  One has his career happening and he can afford to go the other is trying to get his career going and he can't always afford to go. But this year the one son said to his mom,  I'm gonna get my brother a ticket to Hawaii, and mom said just hang on I'll check into it.  They divvied up the cost and bought a ticket for the brother.  How awesome was that ! Really the best gift you can give yourself and your family  is the gift of family. Time spent together is the most important thing.  Don't worry about how full your tree is,  worry about how full your house is.  My family, my children and my grandchildren are my gift this year and always.  I love you guys.  See you soon.
Cheesey yes, But I am so  grateful to have family to spend the holidays with.

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